The lifestyle of a entertainer, is incredibly fast. Many of todays marriages are ending in divorce because people tend to marry for the wrong reasons. 50% of marriages end in divorce in America.
Marriage is when a man and woman come together to be recognized as "ONE" in the eyes of the lord. A marriage makes a family and a family consists of man, woman, and child. A man and woman cannot make a family alone. When we ask for God to enter into our relationships and homes.. our homes are then filled with the love of GOD. To be "ONE" is in our children. No matter if we say we have grown apart.. or I love you but I want to go my separate way.. as long as children are involved your not going anywhere. People say, "Just because you have a child with somebody doesn't mean that you have to stay together".. well.. how I see it is like this.. once you have a child together.. no matter how you think about it.. you are together for the rest of that child's life. Why would a man leave his wife and children to let another man raise his family? In Gods house.. thats not acceptable. People should study the grounds for divorce according to the Bible.
The Bible gives two clear grounds for divorce: (1) sexual immorality (Matthew 5:32; 19:9) and (2) abandonment by an unbeliever (1 Corinthians 7:15)
Moral of the story is, A family that prays together.. can stay together...
In todays society, there is no room to promote divorce in our music.. we need to encourage more couples to stay together... to learn how to work our issues out. Most of the time, the problem is with the man in the mirror. You can't blame somebody else for you falling out of love with them, you allowed that to happen.
Special shout out and thanks to Nas and Kelis for trying to mend their relationship back together for the families sake.. as the saying is said.. "Its cheaper to keep her"
Oh wow I cannot agree with you more. I am constantly telling my ex spouse that we should reconcile simply for our daughters sake but he is motivated by the idea of being satisfied and happy with someone else. I am to blame partially for not demanding marriage But I think this can speak to those who have children out of wedlock as well. I believe in the heavenly fathers eyes that a couple may actually be married once you bear fruit or children together you are joined together for ever because of this.
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I believe it is a breakdown in our society devastating the black community and has been implanted since the days of slavery it seems like it had been implanted in our genes. On Tv we see celebs always on the hunt for the bigger better deal when it comes to woman and the same time hip hop disrespecting woman as a whole and woman senselessly bumping and grinding to these lyrics like there fine w/ it. In the last 20 years most children are being brought up by single mother household how can a woman raise a boy to be a man and on the same note where is these fathers to teach little girls how to have a healthy relationship w/ men when they never saw one.
ReplyDeleteSo we'll be thinking a lot more before we get married, riiiight? I have a question for you though. How is it one scripture can be used to point out a fact, but not another. Truth is the Bible rules out sex before marriage. Is that gonna be followed? Me thinks NO!
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